Creating Meaningful Connections Through Shared Interests
My sister Claire and I have always been close, but when I went away to college our relationship became long-distance for the first time. At first it was hard to stay connected across the miles. But one thing that brought us together was our shared love of beauty and skin care.
Claire was just starting to get into makeup and trying new products when I left for school. We started texting each other product recommendations and reviews. It became our special thing, this little beauty book club of two.
The Power of Simple Rituals
Over time, one small ritual emerged that means the world to me. Every Sunday evening we have a standing video call date. We make a cup of tea, chat about our weeks, and apply our various serums and night creams together.
It’s amazing how something so simple brings us together. Having that special time carved out to take care of ourselves and nourish our bond as sisters fills me up in the best way.
Deepening Our Understanding
Having Claire in my life expands my worldview. As someone with combination skin, I’ve always focused on products that control oil and shine. Claire has dry, sensitive skin, so she’s taught me about gentle, hydrating ingredients I’d never thought to try.
Learning about each other’s skin care journeys has helped me have more empathy and relate better to Claire’s experiences. It’s made me a better sister.
The Gift of Listening
The best part of our weekly calls isn’t the beauty tips or product reviews. It’s the companionship and feeling of being heard. We listen to each other talk through what’s going on in our lives without judgment.
Having Claire witness me and share her own ups and downs has carried me through difficult times. I strive to offer her the same gift of presence.
Nourishing Ourselves and Each Other
Self-care is personal and means different things to different people. For me and Claire, skin care is our self-care. Taking the time to nurture our skin helps us destress.
But it’s not just about looking good. Our shared love of beauty rituals nourishes our emotional wellbeing and our relationship. That weekly skin care date is food for our souls.
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