8 virtual date ideas for Valentine’s Day that don’t involve alcohol

8 virtual date ideas for Valentine’s Day that don’t involve alcohol

Have a romantic dinner over video call

Set up your cameras so you can see each other while you enjoy a nice meal together. Cook the same dish and chat while you eat. You can make it feel even more special by lighting candles and dressing up.

Play an online game together

There are tons of multiplayer online games you can play together from separate locations. Find one you both enjoy, from board games to video games, and spend quality time playing and bonding.

Take a virtual museum tour

Many museums offer online collections and virtual walking tours. Pick one with interesting exhibits you’d both enjoy and take some time to wander the halls from the comfort of your own homes.

Watch a concert or play online

Look up free or low cost streaming shows you can watch simultaneously. From concerts to theater performances, find one to suit your shared interests.

DIY craft night

Choose a simple craft, like painting pottery, making friendship bracelets, or creating vision boards. Get the same supplies, hop on video chat, and make your creations together step-by-step.

Take a virtual yoga or dance class

Take some time to move your bodies and connect with a virtual couples yoga class or dance lesson. Laughing together while learning something new makes for a fun, lighthearted date.

Play an online party game

Jackbox Games offers a variety of party games you can play with friends online, using your phones or tablets as controllers. Take turns choosing games and compete for some friendly competition.

Read poetry to each other

Curl up with your favorite books of poetry and take turns reading your favorite verses out loud to each other. Discuss the pieces you enjoy and what they mean to you.

FAQ

What if my partner and I have very different interests?

Find activities you both enjoy even just a little bit. Also take turns planning date ideas so you each get a say in what you’ll be doing.

What if we run out of things to talk about?

Have a list of questions or conversation starters ready to get dialogue flowing again. Focus more on the quality time than forcing constant conversation.

Is this really as fun as going out somewhere?

While it’s different than going out, virtual dates can be extremely fun and meaningful. With creativity and enthusiasm these ideas can feel just as special.

What if we don’t want to be on camera the whole time?

Feel free to have some screen-free portions of your virtual date. As long as you check in with conversation, you can also do independent activities side-by-side.

How do we make things less awkward over video chat?

Laughter and lightheartedness are key! Don’t put too much pressure on the situation. Remind yourself this is new for both of you and you’re in it together.